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Quite a while ago, I gave up lunch meats.  Infrequently, however, I 
like a taste of ham a la flambe (a/k/a Mark Brown).  But, baloney, 
yuck!

Reveal yourself, Oscar Mayer!

Stu


--- In realtraders@xxxx, ric ingram <ringram@xxxx> wrote:
> Joe,
> On Date: Thu, 6 Dec 2001 19:58:55 -0500 you wrote:
> From: "Joe Duffy" <joeduffy@xxxx>
> Subject: Re: Always on the Right Side
> As volatility breakout trader who averages down in the expectation 
you can 
> always be on the right side of the market, how DO you stay so calm?
> I am calm because I have done my research, gained my experience and 
> under-trade - same as any other calm trader whatever the style of 
their 
> trading system or the markets or instruments they trade.
> 
> I am calm because nothing can hurt me because I under-trade.
> 
> I am calm because my ego is not involved because I under-trade and 
because 
> I make no prediction for my ego to be attached to.
> 
> I am calm because I love the occasional loss - any set of trades 
that end 
> in loss is good in the same way Las Vegas casinos love to pay out a 
million 
> on a one-armed bandit - it encourages the losers to keep on playing 
and 
> lose several million dollars back to the casino.   In fact they 
love losing 
> so much they advertise it with flashing lights and loud music.
> 
> I am calm because calm generates more calm - a virtuous circle.    
Calm 
> generates clearer perceptions (fewer emotions clouding perception) 
and so 
> my ability to identify opportunities is improved, so I make more 
successful 
> decisions and act more effectively and this generates more calm and 
serenity.
> 
> I am calm because I know I can make money almost every day on any 
market 
> that moves significantly.
> 
> I am calm because I believe I provide a service and that is why I 
get paid 
> (make profits).    So I am not in the class of traders who self-
sabotage.
> 
> I am calm because I enjoy learning, and learning benefits from 
> mistakes.    So mistakes are opportunities for improvement not 
reasons to 
> punish myself.
> 
> I am calm, because I have seen most things before and know I make 
the most 
> money on periods where initial market moves go against an initial 
> position.     I have only recently overcome disappointment (a low 
grade 
> emotion) when the market moves quickly in favour of an initial 
position, 
> for these are often the least profitable trading experiences - 
because 
> service provided is minimal.
> 
> I am calm because I know the more service I provide to more 
traders, the 
> more I tend to get paid.
> 
> I am calm because I know the odds are heavily on my side.
> 
> I am calm because a mistake is just one part of one series of 
trades on one 
> market - there is no problem - it gets lost in the wash and I can 
learn 
> from the mistake.
> 
> I am calm because I know the market makers are working their butts 
off to 
> make me money.
> 
> I am calm because I know the big money is just waiting to help my 
position out.
> 
> I am calm because if the market moves temporarily against my 
position, the 
> next trading period will have even better odds in my favour.
> 
> I am calm because any increase in margin by the clearing house will 
shake 
> out more losers for me to make more money.
> 
> I am calm because as the market moves against a position, the odds 
in 
> favour of the position improve markedly.
> 
> I am calm because nearly all slippage is in my favour.
> 
> I am calm because it is just one set of trades and the result is 
not important.
> 
> I am calm because I am patient.
> 
> I am calm because I am a seller near the top and a buyer near the 
bottom 
> because I repeatedly sell into rises and buy into falls.
> 
> I am calm because I meld with the market.
> 
> I am calm because I am doing what I love to do.
> 
> I am calm because the market showers me with presents as reward for 
helping 
> in its cause of serving traders to the best of its ability.
> 
> I am calm because the teaching I am privileged to receive from the 
market 
> is helping me in other aspects of my life.
> 
> I am calm because I have learned to be calm.
> 
> I am calm because I have made lots of mistakes and lost money in 
many 
> combinations of markets, instruments, trading systems - in other 
words I 
> have done my apprenticeship.
> 
> I am calm because I can often learn from wisdom of others.
> 
> I am calm because I can often learn from mistakes of others.
> 
> I am calm because I do not need to be right.
> 
> I am calm because a gap in either direction helps me.
> 
> I am calm because I do not need to worry about loss of data-feed or 
> telephone connections.
> 
> I am calm because I am getting past excitement and into enjoyment 
and 
> fulfilment.
> 
> I am calm because I have no need for expensive data feeds, or 
expensive 
> graphing software.
> 
> I am calm because I know have unlimited opportunities for profit.
> 
> I am calm because I can get on with my life without worrying about 
an open 
> position - the worst that can happen is that I miss a good 
opportunity.
> 
> I am calm because I know have unlimited opportunities to improve.
> 
> I am calm because I am in the moment.
> 
> I am calm because I know my skills are limited and this does not 
matter.
> 
> I am calm because I can appreciate and admire the skills of those 
few 
> traders who fight heavy odds and win through vastly superior skill.
> 
> I am calm because ...
> 
> If you are not calm why are you not calm?   If you are calm why are 
you calm?
> 
> So my question is why so many traders are unable to get past fear 
and 
> greed?   I have 95% as many answers to this question as traders I 
have 
> shared experiences with.    But I never cease to be surprised, 
intrigued 
> and learn from each new answer.
> 
> Perhaps the real question is:
> 
> "How do so many traders remain so lacking in calm when they see the 
best 
> trader in the world - the market - operate so successfully every 
moment of 
> every day?"
> 
> There you have it, the market is the worlds best trader and yet 
most 
> traders cannot or will not see it.    Yet some will willingly pay 
to attend 
> seminars given by traders who will never be as good a trader as the 
market 
> is - and the markets seminars are open for all.
> 
> Regards, Ric.
> www.traderscalm.com


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